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Instead of shaming/blaming someone for being abused, offer kindness and just listen without judgement. “The victim of a narcissist needs: – people to listen and not judge. They will relive the whole relationship many times. They need reassurance they did … Continue reading →

Without hope, what do you truly have? Source: My experiences of narcissistic abuse, part 4: Future faking and broken promises

Originally posted on After Narcissistic Abuse:
“Kool Aid! Kool Aid! Get Your Kool Aid Here!” Narcissists are ALWAYS HYPING AND SELLING the narc kool aid. Not a breath is ‘wasted’ on other things, like OTHER PEOPLE or events in life…no…

Source: The Running Muscles you Never Think About I really wish I had learned about this when I was a teenager. But now I wish younger women were taught how to properly care for their pelvic floor while exercising _before_ … Continue reading →

    1. You never…. The precursor to a criticism of how you do not do something for me. It is a twin explosive assault against you because not only do I tell you that you are failing me by … Continue reading →

“The coup de gras of narcissistic abuse is that final horrible realization that not only have we been cheated on, lied to, abused, and left hung out to dry, but that the rules that defined who we previously were, no … Continue reading →

Wow. Knowing the Narcissist   Established readers may remember dear, sweet Caroline, an ex-girlfriend of mine who had a huge conscience and always sought to do the correct thing. She often wanted to fight back against my manipulations but could … Continue reading →